Jul 4, 2008

How did I forget this....

"People call this ECHO, but really this is LIFE.
It gives you back everything you say or do.
Our life is simply a reflection of our actions.
If you want more love in the world, create more love in your heart.
If you want a better team, improve your skills.
This applies to everything, all aspects of life;
Life will give you back everything you have given to it."

LIFE IS NOT A COINCIDENCE, IT'S A REFLECTION OF YOU!

:)

Please Listen
When I ask you to listen to me and you start giving me advice - You have not done
what I asked.
When I ask you to listen to me and you begin to tell me why I shouldn’t feel that
way - You are trampling on my feelings.
When I ask you to listen to me and you feel you have to do something to solve my
problem - You have failed me,
Strange as that may seem. Listen! All I ask is that you listen. Don’t talk or do –
just hear me. Advice is cheap; 20 cents will get you both Dear Abby and Billy
Graham in the same newspaper.
And I can do for myself; I am not helpless. Maybe discouraged and faltering - but
not helpless.
When you do something for me that I can and need to do for myself - you
contribute to my fear and inadequacy.
But when you accept as a simple fact that I feel what I feel, no matter how
irrational - then I can stop trying to convince you and get about this business
of understanding what’s behind this irrational feeling.
And when that’s clear, the answers are obvious and I don’t need advice. Irrational
feelings make sense when we understand what’s behind them.
Perhaps that’s why prayer works, sometimes, for some people – because God is
mute, and he doesn’t give advice or try to fix things. God just listens and lets you
work it out for yourself.
So please listen, and just hear me, and if you want to talk, wait a minute for your
turn – and I will listen to you.

SONG: “Wanna Talk About Me” – Toby Keith

Jul 2, 2008

Quote

Work isn't to make money; you work to justify life.
--Marc Chagall

Thought

Some time I feel that life has done code freeze at a very wrong place.... and we are so scared to implement new features and upgrade old once that we keep continue with just the bug fixes... but then do any of us know what is our core program so that we can go and make changes without creating more bugs... and on top of this we keep messing with others code to... which is all together out of our understanding...

i know that this post is going to make no sense at all but it does to me....

Jul 1, 2008

Quote

So, like a forgotten fire, a childhood can always flare up again within us.
--Gaston Bachelard

Jun 30, 2008

Mahashweta -- by Sudha Murty

i finished this book this weekend... Some times u never know where you find ur strength and where can you get inspiration.

I was very skeptical about reading this especially right now... but after finishing this book i felt a new energy. Simple, positive, and inspirational that is what this book is :)

Jun 23, 2008

Beauty is not in the face; beauty is a light in the heart.
--Kahlil Gibran

Jun 18, 2008

Oh my GOD!!!

Thackeray wants suicide squads to fight terror via TOI

I am sorry but have they lost their minds.... if this news has a pinch of truth to it... we are really headed for doom. However, I hope there are enough Hindu's to retaliate this idea (not just politically). We just simply have to stand up against it and not make us one of them. It is insane!!!!

Quote

If a small thing has the power to make you angry, does that not indicate something about your size?
--Sydney J. Harris

Jun 17, 2008

Quotes

We are each of us angels with only one wing, and we can only fly by embracing one another.
--Luciano de Crescenzo

We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are.
--Anais Nin

Jun 16, 2008

quote

A true friend is one who overlooks your failures and tolerates your success!

Firends at work place...

It is very difficult to make insecure people your friends.
It is difficult to be friends with people who want to take credit of your work.

People who are truly content and confident in their work can be firends with you.

Jun 12, 2008

Quote

Friendship isn't a big thing - it's a million little things.
--Author Unknown

Thought

Sometimes when you help people they start to take u for granted and take advantage of you... but then one should not mind :)

Jun 10, 2008

Quote

Life expectancy would grow by leaps and bounds if green vegetables smelled as good as bacon.
-- Doug Larson