Women speak two languages - one of which is verbal.
--William Shakespeare
--William Shakespeare
Jul 31, 2008
Jul 30, 2008
Thought
How simple is it to divert your mind when you have the willingness to do it,
How difficult it is to divert your heart even when you have the willingness to do it.
How difficult it is to divert your heart even when you have the willingness to do it.
Jul 29, 2008
thought
kuch log kushi ka karan hote hai aur kuch hasi ka ...
Jul 28, 2008
Quote
Love is an act of endless forgiveness, a tender look which becomes a habit.
--Peter Ustinov
--Peter Ustinov
Jul 25, 2008
Thought
somethings you just don't feel like doing the things that u love the most. There is so much emptyness
Jul 24, 2008
hmmmm
kach ke kwab hai palko main chub jayege..........
Tought
life... is under your control... and yet it completely runs on its own...
emotions... how easy r they to fake... and sometimes how difficult to hide...
where do you draw the line...
how easy for people to misinterpret you...
and not know what is that means and what is it that just is in the passing...
and then you go back in your own shell :)
emotions... how easy r they to fake... and sometimes how difficult to hide...
where do you draw the line...
how easy for people to misinterpret you...
and not know what is that means and what is it that just is in the passing...
and then you go back in your own shell :)
Quote
Every job is a self-portrait of the person who does it. Autograph your work with excellence.
--Author Unknown
--Author Unknown
Thought
reflection!!
Jul 22, 2008
Jul 21, 2008
Timeless melodies...
Sajan Re Jhooth Mat Bolo
Khuda Ke Paas Jaana Hai
Na Haathi Hai Na Ghoda Hai,
Wahan Paedal Hi Jana Hai
Tumhare Mehel Chaubaare
Yahin Reh Jayenge Saare
Akad Kis Baat Ki Pyaare
Yeh Sar Phir Bhi Jhukaana Hai
Sajan Re Jhooth...
Bhalaa Kije Bhalaa Hoga
Buraa Kije Buraa Hoga
Wahi Likh-Likh Ke Kya Hoga
Yahin Sab Kuch Chukana Hai
Sajan Re Jhooth...
Ladakpan Khel Mein Khoya
Jawaani Neend Bhar Soya
Budhaapa Dekhkar Roya
Wahi Kissa Purana Hai
Sajan Re Jhooth...
Khuda Ke Paas Jaana Hai
Na Haathi Hai Na Ghoda Hai,
Wahan Paedal Hi Jana Hai
Tumhare Mehel Chaubaare
Yahin Reh Jayenge Saare
Akad Kis Baat Ki Pyaare
Yeh Sar Phir Bhi Jhukaana Hai
Sajan Re Jhooth...
Bhalaa Kije Bhalaa Hoga
Buraa Kije Buraa Hoga
Wahi Likh-Likh Ke Kya Hoga
Yahin Sab Kuch Chukana Hai
Sajan Re Jhooth...
Ladakpan Khel Mein Khoya
Jawaani Neend Bhar Soya
Budhaapa Dekhkar Roya
Wahi Kissa Purana Hai
Sajan Re Jhooth...
Jul 20, 2008
Quote
It's so easy to fall in love but hard to find someone who will catch you.
--Author Unknown
(and its those who catch you that matter.)
--Author Unknown
(and its those who catch you that matter.)
Quote
"There are images I need to complete my own reality."
-- Jim Morrison
-- Jim Morrison
anonymuncule
zindagi na jane kis mod per chod kar aage nikal gayi
apno ne bhi uske saath rahe badal li
armano ne in duriyo main dum tod diya
sapno ne dar se apne ghar badal liye
aur hume pata tak na chala...
--शोभना
apno ne bhi uske saath rahe badal li
armano ne in duriyo main dum tod diya
sapno ne dar se apne ghar badal liye
aur hume pata tak na chala...
--शोभना
Jul 15, 2008
Jul 9, 2008
I Try to Remember
1. Everybody Doesn’t Have to Love Me
Not everybody has to love me or even like me. I don’t necessarily like everybody I know, so why should everybody like me? I enjoy being liked and being loved, but if somebody doesn’t like me, I will still be okay and still feel like I am an okay person. I cannot make somebody like me, any more than someone can get me to like them. I don’t need approval all the time. If someone does not approve of me, I will still be okay.
2. It Is Okay to Make Mistakes
Making mistakes is something we all do, and I am still a fine and worthwhile person when I make them. There is no reason for me to get upset when I make a mistake. I am trying, and if I make a mistake, I am going to continue trying. I can handle making a mistake. It is okay for others to make mistakes, too. I will accept mistakes in myself and also mistakes that others make.
3. Other People Are Okay and I Am Okay
People who do things I don’t like are not necessarily bad people. They should not necessarily be punished just because I don‘t like what they do or did. There is no reason why other people should be the way I want them to be, and there is no reason why I should be the way somebody else wants me to be. People will be whatever they want to be, and I will be whatever I want to be. I cannot control other people or change them. They are who they are; we all deserve basic respect.
4. I Don’t Have to Control Things
I will survive if things are different than what I want them to be. I can accept things the way they are, accept people the way they are, and accept myself the way I am. There is no reason to get upset if I can’t change things to fit my idea of how they ought to be. There is no reason why I should have to like everything. Even if I don’t like it, I can live with it.
5. I Am Responsible for My Day
I am responsible for how I feel and what I do. Nobody can make me feel anything. If I have a rotten day, I am the one who allowed it to be that way. If I have a great day, I am the one who deserves credit for being positive. It is not the responsibility of other people to change so that I can feel better. I am the one who is in charge of my life.
6. I Can Handle It When Things Go Wrong
I don’t need to watch out for things to go wrong. Things usually go just fine, and when they don’t, I can handle it. I don’t have to waste my energy worrying. The sky won’t fall in; things will be okay.
7. It Is Important to Try
I can. Even though I may be faced with difficult tasks, it is better to try than to avoid them. Avoiding a task does not give me any opportunities for success or joy, but trying does. Things worth having are worth the effort. I might not be able to do everything, but I can do something.
8. I Am Capable
I don’t need someone else to take care of my problems. I am capable. I can take care of myself. I can make decisions for myself. I can think for myself. I don’t have to depend on somebody else to take care of me.
9. I Can Change
I don’t have to be a certain way because of what has happened in the past. Every day is a new day. It’s silly to think I can’t help being the way I am. Of course I can. I can change.
10. Other People Are Capable
I can’t solve other people’s problems for them. I don’t have to take on other people’s problems as if they were my own. I don’t need to change other people or fix up their lives. They are capable and can take care of themselves, and can solve their own problems. I can care and be of some help, but I can’t do everything for them.
11. I Can Be Flexible
There is more than one way to do something. More than one person has had good ideas that will work. There is no one and only “best” way. Everybody has ideas that are worthwhile. Some may make more sense to me than others, but everyone’s ideas are worthwhile, and everyone has something worthwhile to contribute.
SONG: “I’m Alright” – Kenny Loggins
Quote
The purpose of life is not to be happy - but to matter, to be productive, to be useful, to have it make some difference that you have lived at all.
--Leo Rosten
--Leo Rosten
Jul 7, 2008
Quote
For every minute you are angry, you lose sixty seconds of happiness.
--Author Unknown
--Author Unknown
Jul 4, 2008
Once aagain the same song....
Man Ke Darpan Main - Om the Fusion Band
Man ke darpan main dakhe hai kitne rang jivan keMan ke darpan main dakhe hai kitne rang jivan ke
saat sur milke jaise sangeet main dhale,
phool chunchun ke jaise gulshan koi khile.
Man ke darpan main dakhe hai kitne rang jivan ke
pal main badal hai, pal main kirne hai,
bhor hai, sanjh hai kabhi.
ek pal man nirash hai, aas hai kabhi.
pal main muskan, pal main hairaan,
pray hai, bair hai kabhi.
log apne hai ek pal, gair hai kabhi.
pal ye kab jane din bane, jane kaise din badle sal main
ungloin par gine agar yu to sal bhi guzra hai kai
pachi mudh ke jo dakhe ek bar aaj bhi yaad hai sabhi
yaadion ke saath khaboon ke silsile chale
beete har pal ke rang, har khab main mile.
Man ke darpan main dakhe hai kitne rang jivan ke
Man ke darpan main dakhe hai kitne rang jivan ke
din ladkhpan ke, manchale pan ke kitne masoom the sabhi
aab hai aphsos lot ke aayege nahi,
pal do pal ke hai sare ehsas, pal do pal ki hai zindagi.
rishte nate bhi khel hai pal do pal ke he.
bahti nadya ki dhar ke jaisi har kushi aani jani hai,
sase jab tak chal rahi dharkno main jab tak ravani hai.
ek roshan diye ki lo jaise zindagi ki khani hai
andhiyo main bhi zindagi ki ye lo jale
sas ki lo per umar ki gastan chale
How did I forget this....
"People call this ECHO, but really this is LIFE.
It gives you back everything you say or do.
Our life is simply a reflection of our actions.
If you want more love in the world, create more love in your heart.
If you want a better team, improve your skills.
This applies to everything, all aspects of life;
Life will give you back everything you have given to it."
LIFE IS NOT A COINCIDENCE, IT'S A REFLECTION OF YOU!
It gives you back everything you say or do.
Our life is simply a reflection of our actions.
If you want more love in the world, create more love in your heart.
If you want a better team, improve your skills.
This applies to everything, all aspects of life;
Life will give you back everything you have given to it."
LIFE IS NOT A COINCIDENCE, IT'S A REFLECTION OF YOU!
:)
Please Listen
When I ask you to listen to me and you start giving me advice - You have not done
what I asked.
When I ask you to listen to me and you begin to tell me why I shouldn’t feel that
way - You are trampling on my feelings.
When I ask you to listen to me and you feel you have to do something to solve my
problem - You have failed me,
Strange as that may seem. Listen! All I ask is that you listen. Don’t talk or do –
just hear me. Advice is cheap; 20 cents will get you both Dear Abby and Billy
Graham in the same newspaper.
And I can do for myself; I am not helpless. Maybe discouraged and faltering - but
not helpless.
When you do something for me that I can and need to do for myself - you
contribute to my fear and inadequacy.
But when you accept as a simple fact that I feel what I feel, no matter how
irrational - then I can stop trying to convince you and get about this business
of understanding what’s behind this irrational feeling.
And when that’s clear, the answers are obvious and I don’t need advice. Irrational
feelings make sense when we understand what’s behind them.
Perhaps that’s why prayer works, sometimes, for some people – because God is
mute, and he doesn’t give advice or try to fix things. God just listens and lets you
work it out for yourself.
So please listen, and just hear me, and if you want to talk, wait a minute for your
turn – and I will listen to you.
SONG: “Wanna Talk About Me” – Toby Keith
When I ask you to listen to me and you start giving me advice - You have not done
what I asked.
When I ask you to listen to me and you begin to tell me why I shouldn’t feel that
way - You are trampling on my feelings.
When I ask you to listen to me and you feel you have to do something to solve my
problem - You have failed me,
Strange as that may seem. Listen! All I ask is that you listen. Don’t talk or do –
just hear me. Advice is cheap; 20 cents will get you both Dear Abby and Billy
Graham in the same newspaper.
And I can do for myself; I am not helpless. Maybe discouraged and faltering - but
not helpless.
When you do something for me that I can and need to do for myself - you
contribute to my fear and inadequacy.
But when you accept as a simple fact that I feel what I feel, no matter how
irrational - then I can stop trying to convince you and get about this business
of understanding what’s behind this irrational feeling.
And when that’s clear, the answers are obvious and I don’t need advice. Irrational
feelings make sense when we understand what’s behind them.
Perhaps that’s why prayer works, sometimes, for some people – because God is
mute, and he doesn’t give advice or try to fix things. God just listens and lets you
work it out for yourself.
So please listen, and just hear me, and if you want to talk, wait a minute for your
turn – and I will listen to you.
SONG: “Wanna Talk About Me” – Toby Keith
Jul 2, 2008
Quote
Work isn't to make money; you work to justify life.
--Marc Chagall
--Marc Chagall
Thought
Some time I feel that life has done code freeze at a very wrong place.... and we are so scared to implement new features and upgrade old once that we keep continue with just the bug fixes... but then do any of us know what is our core program so that we can go and make changes without creating more bugs... and on top of this we keep messing with others code to... which is all together out of our understanding...
i know that this post is going to make no sense at all but it does to me....
i know that this post is going to make no sense at all but it does to me....
Jul 1, 2008
Quote
So, like a forgotten fire, a childhood can always flare up again within us.
--Gaston Bachelard
--Gaston Bachelard