For every minute you are angry, you lose sixty seconds of happiness.
--Author Unknown
Jul 7, 2008
Jul 4, 2008
Once aagain the same song....
Man Ke Darpan Main - Om the Fusion Band
Man ke darpan main dakhe hai kitne rang jivan keMan ke darpan main dakhe hai kitne rang jivan ke
saat sur milke jaise sangeet main dhale,
phool chunchun ke jaise gulshan koi khile.
Man ke darpan main dakhe hai kitne rang jivan ke
pal main badal hai, pal main kirne hai,
bhor hai, sanjh hai kabhi.
ek pal man nirash hai, aas hai kabhi.
pal main muskan, pal main hairaan,
pray hai, bair hai kabhi.
log apne hai ek pal, gair hai kabhi.
pal ye kab jane din bane, jane kaise din badle sal main
ungloin par gine agar yu to sal bhi guzra hai kai
pachi mudh ke jo dakhe ek bar aaj bhi yaad hai sabhi
yaadion ke saath khaboon ke silsile chale
beete har pal ke rang, har khab main mile.
Man ke darpan main dakhe hai kitne rang jivan ke
Man ke darpan main dakhe hai kitne rang jivan ke
din ladkhpan ke, manchale pan ke kitne masoom the sabhi
aab hai aphsos lot ke aayege nahi,
pal do pal ke hai sare ehsas, pal do pal ki hai zindagi.
rishte nate bhi khel hai pal do pal ke he.
bahti nadya ki dhar ke jaisi har kushi aani jani hai,
sase jab tak chal rahi dharkno main jab tak ravani hai.
ek roshan diye ki lo jaise zindagi ki khani hai
andhiyo main bhi zindagi ki ye lo jale
sas ki lo per umar ki gastan chale
How did I forget this....
"People call this ECHO, but really this is LIFE.
It gives you back everything you say or do.
Our life is simply a reflection of our actions.
If you want more love in the world, create more love in your heart.
If you want a better team, improve your skills.
This applies to everything, all aspects of life;
Life will give you back everything you have given to it."
LIFE IS NOT A COINCIDENCE, IT'S A REFLECTION OF YOU!
:)
Please Listen
When I ask you to listen to me and you start giving me advice - You have not done
what I asked.
When I ask you to listen to me and you begin to tell me why I shouldn’t feel that
way - You are trampling on my feelings.
When I ask you to listen to me and you feel you have to do something to solve my
problem - You have failed me,
Strange as that may seem. Listen! All I ask is that you listen. Don’t talk or do –
just hear me. Advice is cheap; 20 cents will get you both Dear Abby and Billy
Graham in the same newspaper.
And I can do for myself; I am not helpless. Maybe discouraged and faltering - but
not helpless.
When you do something for me that I can and need to do for myself - you
contribute to my fear and inadequacy.
But when you accept as a simple fact that I feel what I feel, no matter how
irrational - then I can stop trying to convince you and get about this business
of understanding what’s behind this irrational feeling.
And when that’s clear, the answers are obvious and I don’t need advice. Irrational
feelings make sense when we understand what’s behind them.
Perhaps that’s why prayer works, sometimes, for some people – because God is
mute, and he doesn’t give advice or try to fix things. God just listens and lets you
work it out for yourself.
So please listen, and just hear me, and if you want to talk, wait a minute for your
turn – and I will listen to you.
SONG: “Wanna Talk About Me” – Toby Keith
Jul 2, 2008
Thought
Some time I feel that life has done code freeze at a very wrong place.... and we are so scared to implement new features and upgrade old once that we keep continue with just the bug fixes... but then do any of us know what is our core program so that we can go and make changes without creating more bugs... and on top of this we keep messing with others code to... which is all together out of our understanding...
i know that this post is going to make no sense at all but it does to me....